it just means that in spite of his tough cool kid facade, his heart is actually big enough to love Eri, love Yui, and still have some space left to love Shinji as a friend
That's a really good way to put it. I like that. XD
And no, I don't think being in love with two people makes someone a bad person, or that one has to cancel out the other.
I mean.. getting really meta about it all, the problem is not in loving two people, but in not being mindful to treat the people you love in a way that is respectful of them and of that love, and I do think that Ren, for all that he wouldn't wna tot give that impression, is exactly the kind of person that can manage that.
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Date: 2009-09-02 03:40 pm (UTC)That's a really good way to put it. I like that. XD
And no, I don't think being in love with two people makes someone a bad person, or that one has to cancel out the other.
I mean.. getting really meta about it all, the problem is not in loving two people, but in not being mindful to treat the people you love in a way that is respectful of them and of that love, and I do think that Ren, for all that he wouldn't wna tot give that impression, is exactly the kind of person that can manage that.